How an Argument Reminded Me That God Wants Us to Enjoy Life

Recently I was in the middle of an argument with my wife. I responded unexpectedly. Something changed and it returned me that God wants us to enjoy life!

How an Argument Reminded Me That God Wants Us to Enjoy Life

This past weekend my wife and I were having a little argument. She was feeling anxious, and I was not very compassionate about it. I started down the path of trying to reason her through the anxiety. I was trying to talk her out of being anxious, and it was not going over well. It looked as if we might be heading for a long and drawn-out argument. Then the Holy Spirit showed up unexpectedly and reminded me of the importance of enjoying life. I stopped trying to reason with her, I lowered my defenses, and I made an off the wall suggestion. Then I said,

“Why don’t we just build a fort and hang out in there all night?”

I fully expected that this outrageous suggestion was going to be met with a certain amount of hostility. As you can imagine my surprise when the only response I received was, “Okay.” My wife and I then proceeded to build a fort out of blankets, couches, bar stools, and laundry baskets that spanned our entire living room. In case anyone is wondering, we did sleep in there. We enjoyed it so much that we didn’t want to tear it down. We were having so much fun, and we were so full of joy, that the anxiety from everything else just naturally faded away.

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I believe this paints a picture of how we are meant to walk with God. It is so easy to see our walk with God as a spiritual obligation rather than a joyous adventure. We can get so caught up in trying to handle every situation with our reason and our abilities, that we miss out on experiencing the joy of our walk. God wants us to follow wherever he leads with joy in our hearts. Whether he leads us into a life of great wealth and prosperity, or he leads us into a life of poverty, God wants us to proceed with great joy. Always knowing that His promises are true and that He always has our best interest at heart.

“Joy is the serious business of Heaven.” ~ C. S. Lewis

John 10:10 says that Jesus came so that we may live life to the fullest. Nehemiah 8:10 tells us that the joy of the Lord is our strength. James 1 encourages us to have joy in trials, and Psalm 47 says to clap our hands and shout to God with cries of joy. God wants us to walk out everything that we do with a joy that can only come from knowing His promises and believing He will deliver on those promises. God wants us to follow Him with a knowing in our hearts that He is for us, and that He is always leading us down the path that is best for us.

My soul will be satisfied as with fat and rich food, and my mouth will praise you with joyful lips, when I remember you upon my bed and meditate on you in the watches of the night; for you have been my help, and in the shadow of your wings I will sing for joy. – Psalms 63:5-7

No matter what you are going through today, no matter how busy or how tired you might be, take a moment to be joyful for all that God has done for you. Remember to enjoy your life! If you are having trouble remembering things, then start with the most important thing. God sacrificed His Son, Jesus Christ, so that you may have life.

God meant for you to enjoy life at the fullest.

Let God’s presence fill you with joy and help you to rise above your current circumstances. Jesus didn’t die so that we could merely survive the world; He died so that we could be full of joy no matter what the world throws at us.

Question from Brian Maisch, the author.

What's one thing you enjoy doing? Do you remember to thank God for it?

Written by Brian Maisch

I have a heart for setting people free from spiritual bondage and world oppression. I believe that the radical love of God manifested through his people can transform the world, and I believe that journey begins with us on our knees in a place of humble submission to God’s will.

4 thoughts on “How an Argument Reminded Me That God Wants Us to Enjoy Life

  1. This is beautiful and so true. During this time, we might reflect on where the joy is in our lives and spend time there. With God.

  2. Love it, Brian! Great story as an example.

    I enjoy going to the beach with friends – Normally while I’m there at some point I’ll venture off on my own for a while to pray and thank God. It’s important to step back in those situations. Thanks again!

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