What to Remember When Your Life is Full of Pain

Life can hurt. Pain seems to find a way into our lives when we least expect it. However, we must remember that love remains and joy will return to us.

What to Remember When Your Life is Full of Pain

Pain is a part of this life. Brokenness is all around us. Parents split. Families’ abuse. The cancer wins. Children die. The only thing I know to be true is this: God IS faithful. He is a deliverer. A healer. A savior. A protector. A warrior. A lover. A completer.

I’ve seen some pretty dark stuff in my days on Planet Earth.  Perhaps the darkest was when a precious child in my life drowned. Utter despair. There was no escape from the pain. It was crushing. I never considered killing myself, but I can now see how some people could do it.

The pain is simply too much too bear. It was the worst time of my life.

But God moved with a Mighty Hand. In that moment, He heard me crying out and reminded me of this scripture,

He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.” – Psalm 40:2

God brought to me a community of faith that changed my life and surrounded me with an amazing family in Christ. I walked in to new life.

He restored my heart and healed me of the wounds. I saw how good and mighty He really is. I worship Him for His faithfulness to bind up a broken heart. It didn’t happen overnight, though. Even as mighty as He moved, healing is a process. It seemed as though the pain would always be with me but again His promises are true.

Weeping may last for the night, but a shout of joy comes in the morning. – Psalm 30:5

The night may last longer than you wish, but when The Lord is your God, the morning always comes.

This past August was 2 years since the little one went to be with Jesus. Not only did God help me walk into new life, but He saw fit to completely heal me. I am free. Looking back, I realized that even though He had been healing me, I was still walking with a limp through life. While I was not under the weight of tragedy any longer, joy had not returned to my heart.

The other weekend, we celebrated the marriage of a brother and sister in Christ. We laughed and danced the night away. I cannot remember ever laughing so much. It was the best time I have had in years.

“He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear the LORD and put their trust in him.” – Psalm 40:3

I would never wish such tragedy on my worst enemy but by clinging to Jesus during the night, He has restored my soul.

I know some of you have experienced terrible things, I know that. Just remember, no matter how long the night, the morning always comes. After that season, the Lord left me with a simple message I would share with you. The pain fades. Love remains. Joy returns.

Question from Joshua Delp, the author.

Can you share an example of a time when you remembered the love of God during a painful time?

Written by Joshua Delp

Follower of Jesus, encourager, and seeker of Truth. Currently residing in Sydney Australia pursuing Pastoral Leadership as a student at Hillsong International Leadership College.

2 thoughts on “What to Remember When Your Life is Full of Pain

  1. Sorry for the loss of your child. Yes, Jesus gives the joy no one can take from you. Psalm 40 is excellent too.

  2. Thank you for sharing truth from a painful place. In many ways we have all experienced painful seasons and sometimes it’s good to be reminded that we are not the only ones that experience them and that God does bring joy at the end of it all and simply it’s good to share and encourage others with our God breathed testimonies and our God victories of growth in character.

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